BMI Measuring Tool™ (the scale that knows)
what matters
to you
most
Because the weight you've been carrying
may not even belong to you.
Feelings, expectations. who’s thinking what. What you’ve always done. What a good wife, mother, daughter, friend, boss—or generally decent fcking human—is supposed to do.
And somewhere underneath all that noise?
You do actually know what matters to you.
Instant digital access · From $22
Sound familiar?
Maybe you’re not indecisive…
Maybe you’ve just carried too much that wasn’t yours.
Do you…
- Say yes before checking what YOU actually want?
- Scan the emotional temperature of the room before your own?
- Predict other people’s reactions before making your own decision?
- Defend or explain a choice nobody actually questioned?
- Say “I don’t care” or “whatever you want” when you actually do care?
- Walk away from conversations scratching your head, replaying them to understand what happened?
- Feel unmotivated, uninspired, or missing a spark you once had?
- Question yourself more than you congratulate yourself?
You've spent a lifetime of getting really damn good at considering everyone else first.
And because you’re a loving, intuitive woman, this can look an awful lot like being thoughtful. Until you realize…
oh shit, that’s me!
That’s the shit we’re changing
Not whether or not “you care”.
Not whether you’re a people pleaser.
Not whether you’re “good” or “bad” at boundaries.
And definitely not whether you can or can not become some IDGAF woman who suddenly stops giving a shit about everyone she loves.
That’s not you.
And it doesn’t need to be.
What if you started measuring what actually matters?
Introducing
the BMI Measuring Tool™
what's weighing in? what weight are you carrying?
your Body. your Mind. your Intuition. period.
B
Body
What’s your body telling you before your mouth automatically says, “Sure!” or silences?
M
Mind
The mental gymnastics of what you should or need to do before questioning what you actually want?
I
Intuition
What’s that quiet little “I already know” underneath all the noise? Not another person telling you what to do.
Here’s a new way to
Measure
BMI isn’t about the weight on your body...
It’s about ditching what’s not yours and keeping what is.
What feels lighter to you?
We’re not measuring how much you can hold.
We’re measuring what deserves your space.
Welcome to your new BMI.
The $7 companion to your BMI Measuring Tool™
You express yourself then comes the “Are you sure?” or the “I’m just concerned.”
You know what matters… unitil
someone questions it and there you are explaining your whole damn life.
The To YOU™ Principle helps you recognize who’s showing up in that moment, get curious about what matters, and find the words for a choice you can stand behind.
First, recognize yourself
The Doubter
The Rescuer
The Inner Fixer
The Overdoer
The Floater
The Real HER
Choose the pattern that feels familiar today. Then explore what you want to feel when this is over, what might be going on for each of you, and what is actually yours to handle.
Give what to you matters a voice
Your BMI tool helps you notice the weight hanging on some heavy decisions. To YOU principle turns that insight into something you can say and do.
“To you” reminds you that their view belongs to them while you speak up for yours.~ Leslie
Liberation can start with one honest sentence. Let yours count.
Inside your companion
- Six DRIFTR™ archetype responses.
- Say what you mean without regret.
- Sort your role and remain in control
- Everyday response examples
- A reusable page for your own real-life moment
Choose your weigh-in
Make the choice that belongs to you
Your values. Your voice. Your choice.
Start with the BMI Measuring Tool™, or pair it with the To YOU™ Principle and give more of what matters to you a voice.
Recommended · Best value
The BMI + To YOU Dynamic Duo
$29
Only $7 more than the BMI tool alone
- The BMI Measuring Tool™: your Body, Mind, Intuition weigh-in
- The To YOU™ Principle digital companion
- Six DRIFTR™ reflections and curiosity questions
- Everyday response examples and a reusable real-life page
- Instant digital access
Just the essentials
BMI Measuring Tool™
$22
One-time purchase
- The Body, Mind, Intuition weigh-in
- The 3-2-1 BMI grid for actions, people and events
- A 60-second version for everyday decisions
- Instant digital access
Secure checkout · Instant digital delivery
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