BMI Measuring Tool™ · Body. Mind. Intuition.

Before you decide

Because somehow there’s more on the scale than just you.

Feelings, expectations. who’s thinking what. What you’ve always done. What a good wife, mother, daughter, friend, boss—or generally decent fcking human—is supposed to do.

And somewhere underneath all that noise?

You do actually know what matters to you.

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Sound familiar?

Maybe you’re not indecisive…

Maybe you’ve just carried too much that wasn’t yours.

Do you…

Say yes before checking what YOU actually want?
Scan the emotional temperature of the room before your own?
Predict other people’s reactions before making your own decision?
Defend or explain a choice nobody actually questioned?
Say “I don’t care” or “whatever you want” when you actually do care?
Walk away from conversations scratching your head, replaying them to understand what happened?
Feel unmotivated, uninspired, or missing a spark you once had?
Question yourself more than you congratulate yourself?

That’s a lifetime of getting really damn good at considering everyone else first.

And because you’re a loving, intuitive woman, this can look an awful lot like being thoughtful. Until you realize…

oh shit, that’s me!

That’s the shit we’re measuring.

Not whether you care.

Not whether you’re a people pleaser.

Not whether you’re “good” at boundaries.

And definitely not whether you can become some IDGAF woman who suddenly stops giving a shit about everyone she loves.

That’s not you.

And it doesn’t need to be.

What if you started measuring what actually matters?

Introducing the BMI Measuring Tool™

Body. Mind. Intuition.

what's the weight you are meant to carry.

Body

What are you feeling before your mouth automatically says, “Sure!”?

Mind

What’s actually yours—and what’s the explaining, assuming, predicting and mental gymnastics?

Intuition

What’s that quiet little “I already know” underneath all the noise? Not another person telling you what to do.

Here’s a new way to

Measure

BMI isn’t about the weight on your body...

It’s about ditching what’s not yours and keeping what is.

What feels lighter to you?

We’re not measuring how much you can hold.
We’re measuring what deserves your space.

Welcome to your new BMI.

The $7 companion to your BMI Measuring Tool™

You know what matters… unitil someone questions it.

You express yourself then comes the “Are you sure?” or the “I’m just concerned.”

And there you are. Explaining your whole damn life.

The To YOU™ Principle helps you recognize who’s showing up in that moment, get curious about what matters, and find the words for a choice you can stand behind.

First, recognize yourself

The Doubter

The Rescuer

The Inner Fixer

The Overdoer

The Floater

The Real HER

Choose the pattern that feels familiar today. Then explore what you want to feel when this is over, what might be going on for each of you, and what is actually yours to handle.

Give what to you matters a voice

Your BMI tool helps you notice the weight hanging on some heavy decisions. To YOU principle turns that insight into something you can say and do.

“To you” reminds you that their view belongs to them while you speak up for yours.~ Leslie

Liberation can start with one honest sentence. Let yours count.

Inside your companion

Choose your weigh-in

Make the choice that belongs to you

Your values. Your voice. Your choice.

Start with the BMI Measuring Tool™, or pair it with the To YOU™ Principle and give more of what matters to you a voice.

Recommended · Best value

The BMI + To YOU Dynamic Duo

$29

Only $7 more than the BMI tool alone

The BMI Measuring Tool™: your Body, Mind, Intuition weigh-in
The To YOU™ Principle digital companion
Six DRIFTR™ reflections and curiosity questions
Everyday response examples and a reusable real-life page
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Just the essentials

BMI Measuring Tool™

$22

One-time purchase

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